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  •  Hey man (none / 0)

    it seem's shitty right now but in your life this is just a small thing. I know I've been there and I'm sure most of the other guys have too. Keep your head up and concentrate on making your yourself happy. Play games more, pick up a instrument, draw or paint something. Take up a new hobby or something you have always wanted to do. I don't know how old you are but you can work more? It will get easier with time but the first is always the hardest. You will find another amazing lady that will dig you as much as you dig her. I promise just hang in there.

    by Windowlicker77 on Sun Jun 08, 2008 at 06:12:49 PM EST

    •  I agreee, find a hobby or something to (none / 0)

      channel all yours anger and hurt into something.

      by Average on Sun Jun 08, 2008 at 06:45:37 PM EST

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    •  As impossible as it seems now, (none / 0)

      what Window said is right.  It just takes a little bit of time (which all seems like an eternity now).  This is one hurt the body/heart experiences that time actually heals.  And he is also right about meeting some other amazing lady, it often happens sooner than you think.  Hang in there.  Hang in there.

      "Gears2 has legs, and they go all the way up!"

      by 3Suns on Sun Jun 08, 2008 at 06:50:26 PM EST

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    •  Excellent advice (none / 0)

      I thought my world was over when my girlfriend of three years in high school cheated on me and we broke up.  Dear GOD, I was so very wrong.  I had a lot of experience in between that and meeting my wife and it taught me what I want from a future spouse.  So much so that I knew immediately when I met my wife that she was meant for me.  We were engaged less that six months after first meeting and married less than a year after exchanging emails (this was back when email was NOT very prevalent).

      I have a wife, partner and best friend and I could NOT be happier with the way my life turned out.  You WILL feel that way someday.  Someday soon, I suppose, Abe.  I know it doesn't feel like it today and it's stuff you don't want to hear, but life is funny that way.  You need to feel the hurt and pain in order to know the joy and rapture.

      by papi blez on Mon Jun 09, 2008 at 01:48:06 AM EST

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