Baby update....

Thu Mar 13, 2008 at 12:06:06 PM EST

Well after 18 weeks...
We know now the gender of my baby to be, IT'S A BOY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So hopefully he'll grow to like videogames like me and also reading from his mom, I do like comics but I prefer he gets to like big fat books just like his mom.

I'm still kind of out touch, it's a surreal experience this of becoming a father, I do not believe I'll become one soon or if I'm worthy of it all.

I want to be a loving father but I'm worrying to become an "spoiling" one, My wife and I have very high hopes on what our child with be, how we hope to shape his mind and make him grow to love what we love, but we also understand that he is an independent individual no matter how dependent he will be of us while growing, nevertheless he is it's own person with his own abilities and better yet his own personality.
I do want him to be happy but I don't want a carbon copy of me (I know he will not be)and that he will pick what he like from our hobbies and that he might no like all that we like.

In the end I hope I can give him what my grandparents and parents gave me: Love and respect for my family and fellow humans.


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